Friday, December 13, 2013

People who deserve to be ignored

© Written by Tarang Sinha


In a journey, sometimes blissful or troublesome, sometimes peaceful or sometimes challenging, sometimes exciting or just plain, called life, we meet some unselfish, compassionate, helpful and understanding people who touch our hearts and stay in our memories forever even if they are far or detached.

But there are some other people who also stay in our hearts but for other reasons. For their selfish, wicked, masked, arrogant etc. image. Such people don't deserve to be in your life or even memories. I think, you don't have to be rude. Just keeping a decent distance would be enough for your peace.

1. People who show that they are very helpful to you and they are trying their level best. Are they really?
    You can also keep fake friends in this category. Hundred enemies are cipher in front of a fake friend!





2. People, sometimes very close to you, pretend to be your well-wisher and show that they deeply care for you but actually mislead you indirectly. Enough for your shattered peace.


3. People who are too busy for you. Have you ever felt that you are the most easily available person for people but when you need them they are always busy? If someone actually cares for you, will try and manage time for you. Those who are too busy, don't deserve your attention.

4. Those who don't miss a single chance to bring you down, come to that in a sugar coated tone. Some people just can't tolerate to see anyone growing! Maybe due to sense of superiority complex or jealousy. Such people tend to injure your enthusiasm and discourage you. Don't listen to them. Staying away would be a good idea!

5. People who are nosy and tend to extract all the information from your life (And maybe spread to the world!). Dangerous people. Keep them miles away from you.



Be good and kind. It doesn't take much. 

You can't solve anyone's problem? No problem! At least don't create problems for them. That would be a great help!




So, you are talking about people today! I would like to share that Uff Ye Emotions (An Anthology in which I'm one of the contributors) is going to release soon. I invite you to share your thoughts HERE on a very special and unconventional relationship (Other than romantic and close blood relation) that you nurture and cherish in your life. I would love to know your thoughts!










26 comments:

  1. Tarang, the pic says it all.
    i agree with you when you say that one does not have to be rude to people who are fake friends but ignore and mange to keep a safe distance. This way both are at peace.

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  2. there are really so many different kinds of people...really.. http://pratikshya-magicmoments.blogspot.in/2013/12/a-hundred-different-faces.html

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    1. Really!

      Pratikshya, I think your blog allows people to comment who're on Google+ only. I'm not so couldn't comment on your posts. If you could allow any registered users....:)

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  3. "You can't solve anyone's problem? No problem! Al least don't create problems for them. That would be a great help!"

    Wish everyone understood this and lived by it.

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  4. yes... we think on the same lines. cheers :) :)

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  5. I totally agree... the least you can do is not intentionally harm someone even if you dont do any good for them.
    This last year and a half, I've been taking the onus to do the opposite - help people i think need me. Its been a process of weeding unwanted people from my life who were just there to hurt me and instead focus on those who are genuinely true...

    I can assure you it has been very rewarding.

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  6. what a coincidence!! i wrote about exactly this today!!

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  7. A thought provoking post Tarang.

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  8. You're right one should stay away from people who don't mean well. Loved that cartoon.

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    1. Yes, funny! Staying away from them is a good idea...

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  9. Nicely composed Tarang, Sometimes I feel it is because of obnoxious people like these that we realise the value of the good ones that bless our lives.

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  10. I loved the way you categorized people whom we need to ignore...Everyone might have faced those 5 types of people in their lives! I've experienced many people of type 3.

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  11. Well well all the eggs in the basket you have revealed :D They do form an interesting set sometimes though :D

    Richa

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    1. All of these traits together?!! Such people can leave you with your head spinning.....

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  12. Such mean people should be told off and ignored. However, at times, they do get to my head and get upset. I need to learn how to ignore them.

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    1. It's indeed an important question, especially when they are close to you...

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  13. Yes,Tarang.All these kinds plus burglars,rogues etc spoil the tranquility of Mother Earth and her progeny.

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